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The truth is, you might actually be way better at connecting with people than you realize. Those little moments that feel awkward to you? They probably weren’t even noticed by the other person. Let’s unpack some indicators that you’re actually crushing it at human connection, even when your inner critic says otherwise.
1. Strangers End Up Telling You Their Life Stories
2. Your Questions Make People Pause And Really Think
3. You’re Comfortable With Those Little Moments Of Silence
4. People Text You Screenshots Of Their Other Conversations For Advice
5. Your Friends Mention How Time Flies When You’re Catching Up
6. You Notice When Someone Hasn’t Spoken In A While
7. You’re A Pro At The Gentle Topic Change
8. You Always Remember To Circle Back
9. You Find Yourself Mediating Discussions Without Being Asked
10. You Help Others Articulate What They’re Struggling To Express
11. You Can Sense When Someone’s Words Don’t Match Their Feelings
12. People Look To You During Group Conversations For Reactions
13. You Can Engage With Both Talkers And Quiet Types
14. You Bring Out Sides Of People Their Close Friends Haven’t Seen
15. People Seek You Out When They Need To Process Something Complicated