Have you ever had a friendship that started out great & ended up being competition? There may have been early warning signs that you missed. Tiktoker & Friendship Coach Sabrina Kirber explained the signs in the video below. She starts off explaining, quote, “Friends that start a competition with you actually start off admiring you. This is such a hard lesson to learn.”
Here are some warning signs to look out for:
- They’re already operating from a place of insecurity
- They don't have the same energy as you and they make comments about your lifestyle. Sabrina's example: If your'e super active they may say "Oh wow! You do so much."
- They try to one-up you
- They’re strangely codependent or ‘obsessed’ with you early in the friendship
Source: YourTango