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Navigating the modern dating world at any age is no easy feat, especially if your goal is a genuine connection. According to Tiktok, the solution isn’t just about finding the right person. It’s about understanding each stage of the dating process and learning how to handle it.
Below we've listed the four phases every relationship encounters:
First, you need a pipeline - actively making sure you’re in situations where you can meet potential partners. That could mean being social in college, hitting up local events or bars, or getting introduced through friends
Next: The talking stage -Once you’ve made a connection and go on that first date, the real test begins.
Then comes vulnerability - “the feelings stage,” where both people start asking themselves, ‘Do I actually like this person?’ in this stage be vulnerable and communicate clearly. Share yourself. Be honest about what you want
Finally: The relationship - Getting into an actual relationship doesn’t mean the work is over. In fact, a lot of people sabotage themselves at this point by dropping their other interests, hobbies, or friendships and becoming too consumed by the relationship itself. Make sure you're embracing yourselves and not getting too "lost in the sauce' if you will!
Remember to have fun! and most importantly trust your gut always!