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In a relationship, boundaries might be unnecessary. Something that bothers one person could not bother another. But where does controlling end and the boundaries begin? After revealing five things she wouldn't tolerate her lover doing, a woman stirred some controversy.
Her first concern is with girl best friends. She says things will eventually get messy, and her boyfriend can, of course, have female friends, but she thinks its 'very weird' and can be avoided!
Next is not knowing her boyfriend’s location. I will never not allow my boyfriend to let me know where he’s at, she stated. In addition, she believes having “find my iPhone” enabled is more of a safety concern. She says she is, of course, not stalking his location all day long, and its rather more of a safety concern.
Surprisingly, for us, the “controversial” number on the list is not allowing her man to go to a strip club! She says, "You can go to bars. You can have a guys’ day, but strip clubs? Absolutely not,” She is very firm on that particular rule and states that it's non-negotiable!
Her boyfriend paying all the bills is also another no. She says, "I feel like the men paying for 100 percent of everything is just, like, wrong. Taylor clarifies that she’s talking in terms of dating, not married with kids. She believes that early on, the guy should take on the majority of the bills, but she'd be lying if she said, she never spent a penny on her boyfriend.
The last rule she has involves his social media use. Taylor says he can use social media, but there should be no excusable reason that her boyfriend should be liking any girl's bikini photos. She says it makes her sad when she sees other guys do it to their girlfriends, and she would not tolerate that.
Taylor reiterates that this was her “hot take, but just my opinion.” to watch her full video, you can keep scrolling!