Have you heard of the "Let Them Theory"?
Motivational Speaker, Mel Robbins, posted about this theory and why she liked it and it has taken off on social media.
For example: If your friends don't invite you to brunch, let them.
Mel says "“The truth is, if somebody ... is not showing up how you need them to show up, do not try to force them to change. Let them be themselves because they are revealing who they are to you. Just let them. Then, you get to choose what you do next.”
Source: HuffPost